Guys, I will try to make this post as short and clear as it is possible without many complicated things.
It is always great when beautiful women approach you. In such case you don’t have to approach them, you don’t have to deal with approaching anxiety and if hot women approach you, it means you are high value male.
Bars and night clubs are probably the best place where hot girls can approach you. Bars and night clubs are places where is normal to meet new people. Women know that, they are going there to socialize, to meet someone, to have fun, to get a man and eventually have sex.
So how to get women to approach you in a bar or a night club?
There are 4 reasons why a hot girl may approach you in bar or night club:
1. She knows you from somewhere
2. She wants a favor from you
3. She is very attracted to you
4. You look interesting (or something interesting happens around you)
She knows you from somewhere
Maybe you are classmates, old friends, you’ve been together somewhere, or you are just famous, etc. Obviously most of the time this is not the case. You can’t count on that point much.
She wants a favor from you
“Hey can you take a picture of me” or whatever PLEASE DO THAT FOR ME thing she says. Sometimes this is a shit test, sometimes she is just trying to tool you. The solution is always the same, DO NOT ACCEPT TO MAKE HER FAVOR. Do not be nice, you don’t know her, use some DHV alpha man routine instead.
She is very attracted to you
Sometimes women will be so attracted to you that they will approach you. Well you have to attract them first. You can use our 10 steps to attraction manual for beginning. If you are the coolest guy in the place, women will fight for your attention. Keep in mind that most women usually don’t approach men even if they are attracted to them, for most of them just showing obvious signs of attraction to the man is like approaching. Women approach verbally only when men haven’t responded to their non-verbal signs.
You look interesting
So far this is the easiest way to get women to approach you in bars and night clubs. Why? Because it works. You simply have to provide a solid excuse to a girl to approach you. Here is where the peacock theory takes part. If you wear something interesting, at least one interesting item, you give girls opportunity to comment on it. This way they approach you. You also might have some interesting things to show other people, some people tell amazing stories, others show tricks or say some jokes. If you are the observed one, great! That’s what you want. Women will approach you.
These were my tips on how to get women to approach you in a bar and night clubs. Now go out and practice.